We have selected 9 trends that it is time to part with immediately. And you certainly shouldn't take them away in the coming 2018!
Chokers
Chokers managed to stay in the fashion top for almost 2 years, and during this time, as expected, they turned from a must-have into a meme. If you don't want to be the object of jokes, now is the time to send your collection of chokers on a well-deserved rest. And in the new year, we propose to focus on earrings - it is much more interesting, and there are more options.
Open shoulders
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Blouses and dresses with bare shoulders last summer were found in the city literally at every step - it seems that not a single girl, at least in the slightest way following fashion, could not resist the trend. It is not surprising that, even in spite of the not too warm summer, everyone managed to get bored with open shoulders.
Fringed suede
It's time to say goodbye to the 70s and boho chic for a long time, which means that suede skirts, jackets and fringed bags are sent to the far corner of the closet. By the way, if fringe, regardless of suede, haunts you, pay attention to the shiny New Year's outfits with this decorative element - this is a completely different story that will perfectly fit into the atmosphere of the upcoming holiday.
Corsets and "fantasies on the theme"
Corsets and belts imitating them also remain in 2017 - we strongly do not recommend "taking" them with you. Better to get a moderately wide leather belt or belt that fits both a coat-robe and a dress.
Basket bags
We are no less tired of leather and suede "baskets" than of the aforementioned chokers. Therefore, we say goodbye to them.
Panama
Panamas have also been "with us" for several years in a row - it's time to change them to something else. If you are in doubt about an alternative, take a look at the various caps and berets.
"Children's backpacks
We have nothing against backpacks in general, but "childish" stories like bear ears or a pattern depicting a unicorn in the wardrobe of adult girls quickly set the teeth on edge. Better "invest" in a versatile leather backpack in a neutral color.
Bombers
We also declare a fashionable fight for the bombers! Well, seriously, how much can you?
Belt bags
Belt bags are, perhaps, the very trend that is the hardest to part with - they are incredibly comfortable, and in addition we got used to them for a long time. But such is life and fashion - a small messenger will be an excellent alternative to such a bag.
Aries (March 21 - April 19) You must leave in the past all situations from which you did not emerge victorious. You don't always have to be first and ...
Aries (march 21 - april 19)
You must leave in the past all situations from which you did not emerge victorious. You don't always have to be the first and best at everything. Do your best and know that you've done your best to not regret it later. The world presses on you, why put additional pressure on yourself?
Leave in the past year every time you made the wrong decision. When you thought you were doing the right thing, but things were not going well for you, this is the normal course of things. People tend to make mistakes and this is not your fault. Let go of the situation.
You must forget about every opportunity you think you missed. You cannot be in time everywhere and do everything at once. You can only be in one place at a time. You are not a superhuman, and in life you will encounter a lot of things that you do not have time to do. Don't beat yourself up for what could have been, what is, and what will be.
Let go of the person you once loved and lost. People who come and go from your life are inevitable. You don't have to forget them, just let them go. Remember them and think about everything that they brought into your life, and not about what they took with them when they left.
Forget the moments when you were rejected. Not everyone will love you, and that's perfectly fine. Learning to deny people if something does not suit you, this will help you grow above yourself and get on the right path.
Let go of whatever you did wrong. You are allowed to be wrong. You can say and do something wrong from time to time, because no one is perfect, and you do not need to ask yourself to do something perfect.
Let go of your fear of being alone. Being alone is not as scary as you might think. Know yourself, spend time alone with yourself. To be lonely and to feel lonely different concepts and they must not overlap. You can be alone and feel complete satisfaction.
You must let go of the person who betrayed your trust. People will not always treat you the way you would like, they will not always be honest and loyal, but this is not your fault, and you are mistaken in thinking that everyone around you is the same. Don't let one unworthy person lose trust in others.
You have to let go of what you missed while you were away. While traveling and exploring, you feel fulfilled, however, if you did not have time to explore the object of your attention, then you feel regret that you missed something important. Remember, you cannot grasp the immensity, learn everything gradually and unhurriedly.
Let go of the moments when you lost your composure. You plan every minute of your time, but sometimes your composure fails you. It's okay that you lose your temper sometimes, you don't have to be collected all the time.
You must let go of promises that others have made to you, but not fulfilled. Empty promises are a huge disappointment for you, but not everyone you know or love will disappoint you. Keep believing in people. Don't let this expect the worst from people.
Let go of the time when people criticized you. Criticism can help you grow above yourself, but only if you let it happen. Don't quit if someone tells you you're not good enough. Believe in yourself and always try to get better.
You already had time to eat all the tangerines and listen to New Year's songs ... So, girls ... It's time to throw off all the extra burden from your fragile shoulders. This year has been difficult for many, so let's make the next one easier. You should not take with you all the problems and hardships that were with us. It's time to leave all these things in the outgoing year and not look at them anymore.
If you have not yet understood what we are talking about, now we will give a couple of examples that will help you understand yourself and the world around you.
Former lover / boyfriend
People who have loved each other after breaking up cannot be good friends. Do you still have feelings for him, and you still communicate? Are you a masochist? Maybe he was with you for friendly sex or just out of boredom. If he needed you, he would not have let you go for millions. So we just make a conclusion. He doesn't care about you. Maybe only what is in his pants and keeps him near you.
Wake up already, finally. Live on. And do not cry in a pillow and feel sorry for yourself. If love is not mutual, then it just needs to be experienced. Just go forward and don't look back. Cross him out of your life and stop suffering. Delete his phone number and blacklist him. Make new friends and connect with interesting people. Therefore, we leave the ex-boyfriend in 2013!
All grudges against mom
These mothers are really evil. They bring to the white knee. But then they are mothers. They love us for who we are. Our problems are always important to them, and they are ready in difficult times to give up everything for the sake of their daughters.
Even if you have a serious quarrel, you cannot leave it for the New Year. You should definitely make peace with her and make amends (even if you are not to blame). Be smarter. Please your mom, because we have her! You can not leave grievances and transfer them to New Year... This is very bad for you and those around you!
All rubbish
Maybe it's time to clean up your closets? The new year is ahead and there is a need for new things. Look, old boots, you won't be wearing them already. So why are they gathering dust here? And these sweaters just lay folded here. Collect these things and take them to the church, they will take care of these things and give them to the poor. Also tidy up your handbags. Rip out all receipts, checks, etc. And stop adhering to the concept of "may be needed." Yes, when it snows in the summer. Throw out all the trash!
Toothbrush
It's time to change your old lady. Usually we forget about brushes, so it serves us and serves until it starts to resemble a broom. Toothbrushes should be replaced every two to three months. Do not feel sorry for her, she has already learned a lot about you. We throw it into the trash can. We go to the new year with a new brush.
Unfinished book
Do you have such a book that you torment and torment all year, but still cannot finish reading? Well, admit that there is. So we thought! Think you can finish reading it next year? Is it worth it? Stop exhausting yourself, it's time to get rid of her. It doesn't matter what it is, even if the famous novel "Ulysses". Just put it aside, or better just give it back, so that it doesn’t make an eyesore to you. Otherwise, even in 2014, you will take it again to “finish reading”. Maybe you will read it by 2017. We don't argue with Tutmas.
Just let it be a thing of the past. You will feel how a mountain fell from your shoulders. This book will not make you happier if you read it by force. Unread books cannot be taken away next year. So if you don’t finish it in a couple of days, then don’t suffer.
Smaller pants
Here are your favorite pants that you won't fit into. Extra pounds? It's sad, but fixable. And in no case cry over your pants, expecting something. Why do you need them? Better put them away in the closet. Tell yourself that you are beautiful! And go buy a new dress for your figure. Look in the mirror and understand that you are beautiful.
And since 2014, give yourself a mindset to lose weight and take up sports. And by the way, stop eating sweets. If you continue like this, it’s as if you’ll never fit into your trousers. Monitor your food. The correct diet is the key to a beautiful figure.
Sad statuses
How girls love depressive statuses on social networks, then about unhappy love, then about having a cold or dislocating their hand. Why should others show their weaknesses and make themselves a whiner? Get a hold of yourself. Is it really that bad after all? If you are upset, share it with your loved ones. They will always help you and give you a helping hand. So remove all the "sad things" from your wall.
Resentment towards friends
Have you had a falling out with close friends? Maybe stop puffing and it's time to go to reconciliation? There is no need to go into the new year with sad thoughts and grievances in the heart. Go to them and express your opinion and try to reconcile. Accept each other for who you are and then everything will be fine. There is no need to expect anything from people, because we can all make terrible mistakes.
TOP 10 bad habits that you need to get rid of before the New 2018
© DepositphotosNew Year for each of us is a time of change and a time to start from scratch. It's time to remember everything that needs to be left without regret in the old year.
To do this, we suggest that you write a letter ... to yourself. Write in it about everything that you would like to get rid of this year and in no case take it with you next year. Cross out at least one item from the list every day - and you will enter the New Year rejuvenated and happy.
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And here is our tip of several steps that will certainly help you on the path to self-improvement.
- Stop trying to make everything perfect
"The best is the enemy of the good" - they say at meetings of anonymous perfectionists. Constantly looking for the perfect way to make coffee, arrange furniture in the apartment and food in the refrigerator, iron the clothes, color combination of bra and panties, you run the risk of annoying everyone around you. In addition, the attempt to automate and simplify all the trivial "worldly" processes leads to constant frustration, because it is impossible to perfectly build a life in which there is so much chaos.
- Stop comparing yourself to your friends on Instagram
We love to compare ourselves to others, and social networks now they are helping us in this. We beg you: stop complaining about your life, looking at photos of friends vacationing on the islands, or cursing yourself for not having time to launch a successful startup, like your friend Masha. Stop trying to be better than someone and compare yourself to fake pictures from social networks. Learn to enjoy other people's successes, admire and learn from their experience.
- Stop giving your whole life to work
How often have you come across a situation where diligent employees carefully follow job descriptions, are looking for projects that will allow them to reveal themselves and show their professional skills, and all their free time and weekends they work and study in refresher courses. But at the next corporate party after the fourth bottle of champagne, you can hear: "How you want to throw everything to hell with the dogs. Not life, but continuous dog races." Try to discover new facets of life!
- Stop listening to skeptics and people who don't believe in you
Each of us is already quite self-critical, and listening to beliefs that something will not work out for you is a useless exercise. Spend as little time as possible with these people and instead focus on people who are supportive and give valid criticism.
- Stop waiting for the Prince
Of course, we all come from childhood, where princes and princesses live and ideal white ponies live. However, we should all learn that the "ideal man" is just ghostly pictures from our imaginations and echoes of "Snow White". And everything that is real is "here and now". And, being constantly in our illusions and hope for a miracle, we miss out on wonderful opportunities to be loved in the present by someone real.
- Stop thinking that "all men are ko ..."
If you are unlucky with a man, this is not a reason to treat everyone equally badly. Forget about failures! Otherwise, you risk that everything will repeat itself again according to the same scenario. You have a whole year ahead of you, and there are 365 opportunities for new love in it.
- Stop holding on to unnecessary relationships
As one famous anecdote says, even in the most desperate situation each of us has three whole paths. So in an incomprehensible relationship, you have three options. The first is to accept. Let's just say it's not for everyone. The second is to try to change something. And the third one. Go away. The only true option is when the first two do not work. And do not drag out, as Zhvanetsky said: "Life is short. And you have to be able. You have to be able to leave a bad film. Throw a bad book. Leave a bad person."
- Stop criticizing everyone and everything
There is nothing wrong with saying what you think needs to be changed. But if you have already undertaken to criticize, then do not be surprised that someone will soon begin to criticize you.
- Stop complaining about life
Your thoughts work like a magnet, and if you consider yourself poor and unhappy, then in the end you will be so. Look at life with optimism! In the New Year, say no to sad thoughts.
Challenge yourself a little. Take any bad situation from your life and find three good aspects in it. Do this exercise once a week. Thus, you will develop the habit of looking for something good in any situation.
- Stop slouching
Aristocratic posture is a sign of impeccable style. It is impossible not to notice a girl with a beautiful posture. It doesn't matter what she is wearing or what her makeup is. The main credo for 2018 will be borrowed from Grace Kelly: "Perfect posture makes everything perfect, so keep your back straight and don't cross your legs."
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